There is a difference.

FUCKING:

Rip my clothes off

Make me shiver.

Tease the shit out of me.

Pull my hair.

Scratch. Bite.

Talk dirty.

Be aggressive.

SEX:

You won't need tips.

It's just sex.

Making Love:

Start slow. Hold my face in your hands. Slowly and softly trace my body. Whisper. Look into my eyes. Know this will never happen unless you are my lover.